Like I worked at hooters, and apart of the job is to flirt, but people recognize me like in the mall at the store and they like sya nasty things , but how can I get them to realize that was at work... thats my job....Like this guy at harris teeter was like hey hooooooooooo............(long storie hooooooo is a nick name) and my boyfriend was like wats he talkin about ....should I like blow it off or tell him off...|||Well, lets face it, the patrons at Hooters aren't exactly the most "classy" guys in the world.
In other words, if you (the customer) wouldn't feel embarrassed to walk into a place like that, then things like tact, discretion, subtlety, self respect, and good manners probably aren't your strong points.
Actually, I think *most* guys who go there at least have the common sense not to accost one of the waitresses, if they recognize her on the street....
On the other hand, you're probably going to get a certain number of the "God's gift to women" types, who think *anything* a woman does is a come-on directed personally at them. They also think that lewd comments make them seem more "manly." (These type of men often work as used-car salesmen, or as accident/injury lawyers....)
But that doesn't really answer your question.
I think some of the previous posters are right. There is really no way to avoid running into a few of these sleazy jerks occasionally. You just have to grow a thicker skin, or else find a new line of work.
If you want people to respect you at all times, unfortunately you have to treat YOURSELF with respect at all times.
The only other option that I can think of, is to simply avoid going out in public within about 40 or 50 miles of the place.
Good luck,
~WOMBAT|||If it's just the once ignore it, if you keep running into a particular person confront them about it.|||blow it off girl.|||I got really fat. Now nobody thinks of me as a sex symbol.|||Get a job that doesn't exploit your sexuality. Gain more skills and move or develop a thick skin.
You will become less attractive as you get older so the stage will pass naturally. If you blow him off that will constitute a felony and you are likely to lose your job.|||No offense, but if you're willing to work at hooters you'd best prepare yourself for a slew of nasty comments...
You can tell them to stop when they say them, however. If they don't listen to you and continue the action, that's sexual harassment and should be dealt with more seriously.|||your inegible statement reminds me of a viral i once seen about 4 years ago. come to think of it, it was on ebaums world. something about "boop" or something|||well dont dress like a hooter off da job. also dress very sofisticated whengoing out to places were peeps mite recongize you! tell ur man about it all so he nderstands why peeps do that if they do recongize you! have fun!!
good luck!
xoxo....%26lt;3|||Blow it off - you know you made good money and he sounds like a loser!|||Realise you will grow old. Very, very old.
You will be 40 looking back at either a blur of men, or grown children who are hopefully as successful as you can be.|||Maybe find a different job that allows you to wear more professional attire then your current job allows you to. Don't take crap from the guys either, you deserve more respect then that.|||I suppose first of all you should stop using the word "like" so frequently in your sentences, that might help. Additionally, putting yourself in a position to be objectified where breasts are your biggest asset, I don't fancy it should come as all that great of a surprise to you that you are now viewed in the same light in public places. Change jobs, grow up, go back to school and try to learn what it really means to be a woman...which I assure you, does not include flauting your breasts for the pleasure of men. Hope that helps.|||Hi Kim, just dress and act a little more demure. I am sure that you will be taken more seriously, and I don't just see you as a sex symbol. Just a lovely young lady. who brightens my day.|||Respect is Earned and Gain .|||Did you quit the job?
If you did, don't dress provocatively anymore, and wear natural make-up.
People may not recognize you anymore!
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Good luck hun.
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